"HOW TO LOVE?"

When you say the words "I Love You"
it is simply to show someone that you love them
When you say the words "I Love You"
make sure you are willing to do anything for them

Put yourself in someone else's shoes
rather than impose your own expectations
to understand how they feel
where they come from and who they are
Realize how they could also love you back just as well

If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations
then it is not love at all but deep-seated opportunism
If your interest is not in the other person as such
but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life
then it is not unconditional
If you have no intention of improving that person’s life
or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are
then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you
It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love
Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you
do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way

If you realize that you can lose the one you love
then you have a greater appreciation of what you have
Think how lucky you are to have someone to love
Don't make an idol of the person you love
This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.

And lastly, never stop loving
Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.